These men will hit and run till kingdom come. They see nothing wrong with it, no one does. They will get glorified for it. So if you are tired of getting screwed over, this is for you. Are you tired of getting your hopes up only for them to come crashing down after sex? Would you like to get over someone by getting under another? Have you read a girlfriend’s guide to depravity? Well, here is my guide to not feeling guilty for being depraved.

IT WAS FUN

You had your fun. No one got hurt. You did not force anyone into anything. Unlike parties of the opposite sex, you did not use deception to get laid. So, why? Why feel guilty? Are you not entitled to fun? Are you not deserving of a no strings attached sexually beneficial night or moment (if he’s a one minute man, which is unfortunate)?

FREEDOM TO DO AS YOU PLEASE

You pay your bills. You are proud of your sexuality. Girl, you are in touch with your sensual side. You know what you want. What you want is sex. You do not want the baggage that comes with a relationship but you definitely want the sex part. It is not a sin to go for what you want. So own it. Enjoy that after bang glow. When it starts to fade, go out and get some more.

HE IS NOT YOUR ONE

This man you used for your pleasure, selfishly and frequently through the night, is not your soul mate. You will not grow old with him fighting over his inability to go more than three rounds a night. So, do not feel bad about using him. He probably would have used you if you had not done it first. He would not whine about how bad he felt after so why are you?

YOU WILL GET USED TO IT

Casual sex is like riding a bike. The more you do it the better at it you get and the more chances you come across. The guilt fades away into nothingness with time. One day, you will feel absolutely nothing but post sex euphoria.

It is fine to be a little or a lot depraved. As long as it is your choice and it makes you happy, do you girl. Better yet, do someone else.

#MitegoEA.